Seeing a psychic is an intense experience. You may be feeling anxious, confused, or unsure – especially if you’re in a stage where you’re seeking answers. The good news is that a visit with a psychic can be life-changing, as long as you’re ready to believe. Read on for our top 5 things to know before visiting a psychic.
Nothing is Set in Stone
Any good psychic will tell you. You have the power to change your fate.
When a psychic gives you a prediction, they are simply reading your energy and determining your future based on your current path. However, one move you make tomorrow could change your entire reading! If you get some not-so-great news, don’t fret… because your future is in your hands.
2. Not all Psychics are Created Equal
A psychic is no different than a dentist or therapist (okay, maybe a little different), in that you have to find one that is right for you. If you go to your first reading and walk out disappointed, don’t swear off psychics forever. Simply start shopping until you find one that you vibe with. However, once you do, you should stick to seeing only them. Visiting multiple readers within a short time can result in different predictions, and change or confuse your path.
3. There are Different Reading Styles
Every psychic has their own unique reading style, and most will offer a range of services. Some prefer tarot cards, a few will hold an everyday object of yours in their hands, and a handful will simply sit with you and rely on energy and intuition. It’s crucial to choose the reading style that you believe will suit you best.
4. Don’t Ask Too Many Questions, at First
We know what you’re thinking. “Isn’t that the whole point? Why did I see this psychic if I’m not able to have my questions answered?” But hear us out.
Letting the psychic guide the session will give you an unbiased reading, as they aren’t able to draw assumptions based on your previous questions. For instance, if you ask “will I be married in the next 10 years?” in the beginning, they’ll pick up that love is a priority, and may try to sell you a love spell or tell you what you want to hear so you keep coming back. Try to listen to what they have to say, and ask any follow-up questions at your discretion to get the most accurate reading.
5. Don’t Give in to the Stigma
While psychic readings are a bit more accepted in today’s spiritual world, there is still stigma from the skeptics. Don’t listen to the non-believers who call psychics “fakes” or “scammers,” because that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Don’t get us wrong, there are definitely a few frauds. But the majority of legitimate psychics act as a life coach, simply guiding you towards a proper path with your best interest in mind.
I am a lifelong pop culture junkie with immense passion for all forms of art and entertainment. On a typical weekend, I can be found at a concert or musical, chasing ghosts on the Haunted Mansion at Disneyland, or watching way too many makeup tutorials on YouTube.
Poltergeists are often connected with ghosts, and while it’s true that ghosts can be poltergeists, poltergeists are not always ghosts. Categorized by their noisy nature, their ability to move objects, as well as various other physical disturbances. The term poltergeist comes from the German language, poltern, “to knock,” and geist, “spirit,” and in England the poltergeist is often synonymous with the boggart. These mischievous and often malevolent spirits date back to ancient Rome, as well as medieval Germany, China, Wales, and they continue to be reported from elsewhere in the world to this day. These impish spirits have not changed much over the year in how they present, except for taking into account the evolution of technology. In ancient reports, the reports showed that would throw rocks, dirt, and other objects, cause loud noises, knocking, strange lights, and unexplainable shrieks, as well as physical and sexual assaults that would leave their victims shaken. Modern reports have included lightbulbs spinning in their sockets and telephones repeatedly dialing the same number.
The phenomenon of poltergeists has been researched in-depth at a scientific level since the late 1970s by parapsychologists and they have come up with several theories as possible explanations. Alan Gauld and A.D. Cornell, English researchers of the time collected the data from 500 separate instances of poltergeists dating back from the 1800s. Among the characteristics that these cases had in common, about two-thirds of all cases included small objects moving from their original location. Over half of the cases showed that the poltergeists were most active at night, and many individual incidents lasted longer than a year. Some other disturbing coincidences were that quite a few cases were focused around females under the age of twenty.
Before the 19th century, poltergeist activity was blamed primarily on the paranormal—spirits, witches, demons, and most often the Devil. At the turn of the century, however, a large spiritualism movement began, where mediums would routinely allow themselves to become temporarily possessed as a conduit to those who have passed. There were several researchers who began to investigate the idea of unconscious psychokinesis, alluding to the idea that the individual that the activity centralized around, was, in fact, the cause of it all. This isn’t to say that they were being accused of faking the activity, but more likely causing it without their own knowledge and although this theory began to be explored in the 1930s, it is still considered fairly controversial in nature. It’s important to take into consideration that the majority of these reports were recorded between 1840 and 1920 before the phenomenon came under the scrutiny of modern scientific research.
Poltergeists in History and Modern Culture
The Amityville Haunting
Ron DeFeo Jr., the infamous murderer of Amityville still lives and he continues to serve his six 25-year life sentences in the New York Correctional Facility; his initial story consisted of him claiming to hear voices that were convincing him to kill his entire family, but then his story changed, multiple times since. While DeFeo now claims that he didn’t murder his entire family, the details have gotten so fuzzy over the years that it’s still incredibly difficult to tell if this was an actual case of possession—which later resulted in poltergeist activity for the Lutz family—or if the entire thing was a hoax propagated by the Lutz family. It’s widely theorized by skeptics that the Lutz family intended to cash-in on the mass murder committed by DeFeo, due to a problematic financial and legal condition so they could take advantage of the publicity. It makes sense to take the view of the skeptic, it’s never a good idea to accept anything on blind faith, but much of the evidence and first-hand accounts disagree with the skeptic’s point of view.
Why do we believe them? Well, even though it’s been proven that lie detector tests are not infallible, George and Kathy Lutz weren’t trained to pass them, yet they did so to prove their innocence and ended up passing. There are also claims that George Lutz had a history of dabbling in the occult, we’re not so sure where we fall on this matter—this could mean that either Lutz was incredibly familiar with the symptoms of a poltergeist haunting, or it means that he was more open psychologically to the idea and the poltergeist took hold. The entire family apparently experienced foreign odors, cold spots in certain areas of the house, and reported a slime that would randomly ooze out of the walls and keyholes. One tidbit that could be an embellishment, was the allegation that George Lutz would wake up at 3:15 AM every morning, which was when Ron DeFeo Jr. was said to have committed the murders.
Aside from observers from outside of the Lutz family, there was the priest that was called in to bless the home, who reported having heard a voice scream to, “get out!” Due to his own personal experience, he advised the family to never sleep in that room again. The paranormal activity within the house only increased from there, with a garage door opening and closing, as well as a knife being knocked down in the kitchen by invisible forces. This all escalated even further to every member of the family except for George, who observed the phenomenon, levitating off of their respective beds. Daniel Lutz, one of the sons continues to have nightmares about this house even to this day.
The Truth Behind Amityville?
The following video addresses both skeptics and believers when it comes to the Amityville haunting, so why not hear both sides?
In the book, This
House is Haunted (2011), the account of the Enfield Haunting is given
in full, which also inspired The
Conjuring 2(2016), part of the great paranormal franchise that follows
the investigations of Ed and Lorraine Warren throughout the years. The Enfield
case is possibly one of the most famous poltergeist hauntings ever recorded. Originating
late August of 1977, in the suburb of North London, the house in Enfield was
inhabited by a single mother and her four children; the initial report was of the
two middle children experiencing their beds shaking violently, and shuffling
sounds when the children were in their shared room. At that point, the mother
Peggy, was not entirely convinced that it was actually happening.
Peggy and her two middle children were all witness to when sudden furniture movements and loud knocking with no origin began, at which time Peggy sought the help of her neighbors. Once her neighbors witnessed the knocking but had no explanation for it, the police were called in. The police were even hard-pressed to find an explanation behind the knocking and furniture movement that they ended up witnessing upon responding to the call. The Enfield case eventually subsided for a time, before being reignited a short while later lasting for a few years in total.
Author. Artist. A little bit Alaskan. Mary lives with her dog in a rural cabin outside of Fairbanks, Alaska. They explore the bounty of the Alaskan wilderness during the summer and cozy up in their log cabin during the winter.
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website.